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Am I good with that? If so, great! If not, what would help make situations like that feel better in the future? I have worked with people on this in coaching — essentially raising awareness about whether or not something feels good to you personally rather than allowing the judgements of others to dictate how you feel about yourself.

I get called quiet a lot. I do like being around extroverted ppl tho cause I can be extroverted at times but I need time also to myself to recharge. But it bothers me and I always question why I am. I keep alot to my self and am very private.

I guess this is normal to be this way? Hi Ashley, thanks for your comment. Yeah that sounds thoroughly normal! It can be frustrating when you want to be more actively involved but you hold back for some reason. It sounds like there are people with whom you are more comfortable to share yourself and be open. Plus as you say, the ability to listen is a very valuable trait! What does your quietness help you to do?

Self-awareness is the first thing what does my quietness give me? I get it all the time. I just try to be the best I can and learn from the interactions I have with people and try to do better. Hi Jessie, thanks for your comment!

Sometimes we can overthink our conversations too — I know I and many other introverts! I still remember things I said 10 years ago and feel regret! And also feel the sense of judgement when I said the wrong thing or was unable to find anything to say. Trying to learn to laugh about those situations and learn something about myself from them! When you think people want you to communicate differently, what does that mean for you? People point out my quietness all the time , it makes me feel stupid, alone and broken or even undeveloped as a person.

They simply see someone as quiet. Usually, it is passed off as shyness only. I want to share a testimony how a spell caster return the mind and heart of my husband back to me within two days. Akhidenor to favor me, the same God will favor you too. When I am trying to be appropriate in what I say and I have someone attacking my introvert nature. A few years ago, I would have felt awful and tried anything to make a conversation with that person.

Pointing it out is actually the worst thing a person I just met can do. It makes me lose interest in them immediately because that was basically them pretending they already figured me out from the first trait I let show. Stop generalizing, people. Same with my boss when I got hired, they noticed that I was quiet. Everytime they mention it, it makes me feel more awkward. I am a quiet shy person but when ever I am with the people I am comfortable with I can really be loud and unmanageable so I am somewhat amixture of introvert and extrovert as well.

I usually need a lot of time to get to know new places, people or situations and may be a longer time than what most of the people usually takes in real,. I feel that in that way it will be the easiest for me to protect my self and put my mind at ease. I wonder how people can be so easy to put the labels on others and why do they lack the empathy?? I am brutally honest about everything most of the time in my life and this kind of labelled comments make me remind everytime that honesty and transparency makes u vulnerable infront of others so be happy on your own that is the best thing to do.

I thought that they were feeling somewhat lonely or anxious, so that they expressed it to hear my opinion. I try to force myself to join a conversation when I really feel like I need to speak, but what happens is I end up mumbling and not getting my point across. It has happened to me too many times for me to remember how many. At work. In my family. Among people I thought were my friends…etc, so forth and et al.

It drives me effing bonkers! I need to see what is being done. Hear what is being said. Be who I am. I want to experience my life the way I do. In my personal way. Just because I am different, everyone has to judge me? Not fair! Silence is Acceptance. On March 20 wo0py wrote: i dont like quite people.

I like quiet people. I don't see why people expect people to be talkative all the time and point out that you're quiet. I've had it happen to me. I'm actually really talkative if I know the person. If I don't know them it's not so easy to make long conversation. On March 20 [Fin]Vittu wrote: i think its fine being quiet. Live Events BSL. TT1 vs spx. Hawk vs KenZy. ESL Pro Tour. Serral vs Rogue. ALGaming Crank TaKeTV IndyStarCraft HorussTv CosmosSc2 DivinesiaTV IntoTheiNu Liquipedia Discussion.

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